i feel out of place within most communities, but especially so in ones that hang together solely based on their mutual preoccupation with something i share as a quality. i just don’t find asexuality anywhere near worth the fuss it’s getting. also it really bothers me, as a trans+queer person, to have asexuality characterized as an “oppressed” sexual minority in the USA. being disbelieved, eyerolled at, and told you’ll ‘grow out of it’ are not the same thing as oppression!
also i just don’t want to be around that many 13 year olds who know for sure they’ll always feel this way. we have nothing in common, very probably including asexuality itself.